Embracing Misunderstood

1. We are all Misunderstood
2. My need to be understood (from others) comes from an unhealthy place
3. Spending time being understood by others, is time I can be spending understanding myself better. 
4. Spending time complaining about being misunderstood by others sucks the life out of me. 
So ultimately...

Is focusing my time on being understood and complaining about it actually providing myself with self care and growth?